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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He said I shouldn't have "put all my eggs in one basket" after I told him what I thought about him! What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I split up with my bf of four years six months ago. I'm 25. The split was amicable as we both wanted different things. For two months I've been chatting to a guy online. We chat most days and I really like him. We've spoke on the phone and we send daily pict... (356 words)

Crushing on a guy I've never even met outside of Facebook!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a weird and kind of silly situation and don't know what to do. I find myself crushing on my guy friend's best friend. And I haven't even met him in person. My guy friend talks about him a lot (because he's his best friend obviously) and I have him added on Faceboo... (319 words)

I have started to really like this guy who is 3 years older and has a girlfriend but has been really nice to me, but now I'm confused!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have started to really like this guy and he is three years older than me I am 15 soon to be 16, he has a girlfriend but recently has been texting me and being really nice and leaving kisses,and at first I only thought of him as a friend but now I'm started to have feelings ... (160 words)

I've been waiting for him to get the divorce and get a mortgage with me, and now that he says he will, I'm not as excited as I thought I would be!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - You may know from previous posts I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have just had a weeks break as I could not cope anymore with only seeing him once a week. I have taken up Ho vies and made new friends but at the end of he day I still have to sleep on my own every ... (207 words)

What might be her intentions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

7 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I need to make decision and might need some other pionts of view about it. Long story short. My ex Gf broke up with me, for some reasons, and she behaved pretty mean and hurtful at the end. So I decided for me to go NC and stuck with it for over 5 month now. Ob... (402 words)

In an LDR for 3 years, we rarely see each other, and have had sex 3 times! She says she loves me but I'm not sure she wants to be with me. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello.I am a 31 year old guy and I have been in a relationship with a younger woman for the past 3 years.We live around 100 miles from one another but have kept things going but I rarely ever see her and in those 3 years she has come up to see me ONCE.She says this is becuase ... (373 words)

My ex's mum messaged me and I'm not sure if or how I should respond!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Today my ex's mother has facebook messaged me. It is the first time I have heard from her, and I was relatively close to his family, so am not sure whether to respond or how. The message was nice, she was sorry to hear about us breaking up, she hoped my job and family going ... (595 words)

My boyfriend accused me of dating the phone repairman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

7 May 2014 (F) age 30-35 - I'm female of 23plus and my guy is 29yearsplus we've been dating getting to 3months which l love so much but sometimes i still wonder if he loves me as a result what happen of recent, this how it happen two weeks ago when an enginner who repairs electronic came to our house ... (240 words)

It's obvious there is something 'off' about my new neighbor, how do I deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I think there is something wrong with my new neighbor . He is in his late 50s, has a very sweet wife, grown children and an 8 years old granddaughter. We live in our house for 3 years, and mostly young families with small kids. They just moved in a couple months ago. Firs... (343 words)

I'm still undecided about my career path!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship question but I have always found the aunts and uncles advice so helpful so I thought I would ask. How do you decide which career path to take? I am currently four years into a law degree and will graduate this summer. Alongside my degree I work at... (322 words)

My friend expects a lot from me, is she just using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so lately I've been feeling like people are using me, for the past year I've been constantly paying this that my friend need because she has no income and I feel mean when I'm getting thing, but lately she's been weird with me and expecting things she thinks I should make ... (95 words)

What type of condom do you recommend for the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So I am a virgin currently. My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex. I'm a virgin and he isn't. My question is: What type of condom do you recommend for my first time? He wants to use fire and ice but I'm not so sure since if it hurts, I don't know if the mix ... (116 words)

If he takes you to meet his family is he serious about you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid,when a guy lets you meet his family is he serious about you? Is this guy serious about me or is he a player? we are both 23.When I first met him he was very sweet and said he hasn't been in a relationship since he was 17 and he has just had girls that were ... (256 words)

Am I gay? Am I straight? How do I find out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 30 year-old man confused about his sexual orientation. This is a looong question, but I request you, PLEASE do read it is entirity. MY GAY PHASE: As a kid I was a sissy. I used to always be scared of things, used to cry easily etc. I was always teased for it. I... (1133 words)

My family is just a source of stress

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, I'm a 24 year old female living 600 miles away from my family. I don't have a great relationship with my family, especially my dad. He shows his love my providing financial but is incapable of any emotional affection. I have been through many traumatic event in my ... (305 words)