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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The information this man gave me about his past has made me uncomfortable. Should I keep dating him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this weird? I started dating a man, and we've been on a few dates, I'm still getting to know him. But during the last date he told me that he had been previously engaged to a woman he had dated for almost ten years since he met her in college. He said that he broke of... (469 words)

Has "nice guy" become a derogatory term?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - It seems like when you call someone a "nice guy" it seems as if it has some sort of negative connotation to it as if it is synonymous with loser, wimp, geek/nerd, pushover etc. basically anything that would be viewed as unattractive to the opposite sex. Do you think that t... (70 words)

Never had a Boyfriend but I keep on getting crushes on guys. Now I like a guy who's in a LDR. What advice can you give me please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have not been lucky with love. I have never had a boyfriend nor sex. I have come to accept that for me, relationship is not in my way. Probably because I am disabled. Unfortunately,my heart just will not listen my problem. I keep getting crushes and ... (173 words)

Don't want to seem like a nagging girlfriend. Is my reaction to his behaviour justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My question is brief.......... I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for some months now. I love him and he tells me that too but my problem is i always get jealous when he 'likes' girls pictures or speak with girls on facebook or when i call him and his line is busy.... (76 words)

I've been lying for years telling people I was 10 years younger than I am! Now I can't talk to people about things because they don't understand why I would worry!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34 and I have been lying about my age for nearly 10yrs. I don't know why I first started doing it, I just did and have carried on since. I live in a different country to where I grew up so it technically wasn't easy to do. Then I started dating a man who was 9yrs younger ... (392 words)

Are we just becoming friends? Or can we become more than that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy almost 3 moths ago online. When we met he had recently just had a major surgery on his spine. When we met and talked about what we are looking for he mentioned his next relationship will be with his best friend. Due to his surgery we have found it hard to be in... (206 words)

My boyfriend's parents hate me. Should I just stay away from them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's family hate me, and I can't pretend like it doesn't bother me anymore. He has asked me to ignore their comments but after two years, I think I have waited long enough! I met my boyfriend while he was still in a relationship with the mother of his child, but w... (363 words)

Do I ask her to see if she'd like to date again? Or just let things go till later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

2 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on what to do with a girl I've been seeing lately. I met a girl and we started to date for around two months. Within that time we enjoyed each others company; I did nice things to suprise her and we generally had a fun time. We were only dating each othe... (651 words)

She never replied to a really long message I sent and now I don't know how to act around her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

2 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl a workshop at college months ago and i thought she was really pretty but i chickened out and we didn't speak afterwardsIsaw her vaguely around college but she was always with friendsand far away so nothing happened. however a couple of months ago she followed... (182 words)

We talked for hours every day, but now that he's home he doesn't have any time for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy who I know and I've seen around a few times who is sort of like a friend of friends. We've had each other on Facebook for around 3 years but have never actually got to know each other properly, until recently. In short- he is in the army, based around 300 miles ... (451 words)

Could an attractive real woman make a guy less interested in porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Right here is a question I possibly know the answer to. Lets say a guy likes a lot of porn, glamour mags, sexy photos etc. is here any way him finding a real woman who is attractive in looks and personality can change this or at least lessen it? Could it be they are just like ... (63 words)

My boyfriend gave another girl his number just to be friendly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and a half. A couple of months ago he was at a party with some friends and he met a girl there. (she wasn't just some random girl, she's good friends with some people at the party) My boyfriend said she started talking ... (300 words)

He's an awesome boyfriend but I just can't come to terms with his past

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

2 May 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I feel like such a dumbass for writing this question. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months or so, and he's an exceptional boyfriend. It's been great, I'm really happy. Except I'm having problems accepting his past. I know, I know... it shouldn't matter, and consciously ... (825 words)

Is this how a booty call works or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So Aunts and Uncles.. I had sex with a guy laat night. He's my sisters friend and I like to consider it a "booty call" and thought we were on the same page. Well we stopped by Walmart afterward and he kept holding my hand and kissing me in public. After I left his place he ... (150 words)

I had a threesome before I got married. Do I tell my husband?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I was involved in a once only threesome with my ex bf and another girl. Deeply regretted. Should I tell the man I married later? He has had premarital sex but not of this kind.... (36 words)

Do women think the key to attracting men is to dress like sluts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

2 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi this question is not specific to one specific relationship but more on a general level, in my effort to meet someone. I'm curious about why when going out on say a Friday or Saturday night, young (and not so young) women feel the need to dress like high class hookers (or in ... (212 words)

I'm shy, would working with children be alright for a job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a shy person. Would working with children be right for me ?. I am on Jobseeker's Allowance. My advisor at the Jobcentre has said that I need to do some voluntary work. She has put me forward for a voluntary job at a Youth Club where children between the ages of 8-19 go. ... (86 words)

My sister is having an affair and I've about had it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

2 May 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 35 years old and I have three older sisters. The middle one is 45 years old and twice-divorced. She has been having an affair with a married man from her work for almost three years now. He says he has to stay with his wife for the kids but he will leave her once they are... (633 words)

I had sex with a friend in a troubled relationship. How do I tell her that it was not to take advantage of her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

2 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with a classmate for a long time. She is in a relationship for three years now. I tried befriending her boyfriend, but he seemed arrogant and did not respond warmly. So I chose to remain distant from him, but did not tell the same to my friend and just ... (146 words)

My B/f doesn't want to get married because he doesn't want to support me with medical bills and marrying me will have a bad effect on his retirement fee

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

2 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 4 years told me that he doesn't want to get married anymore.. And his reasons are very selfish in my opinion. He said he doesn't want to support me with medical bills, or that marrying me will have a bad effect on his retirement fee. I was devastated because he ... (183 words)

Maybe its "no more Mr. Nice Guy " time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

2 May 2014 (M)

age - Hello, I met a women on a dating site, talk for two weeks, then decided to meet, she wanted to meet at a bar, three hours later it was great,we laugh ,alot hug kissed talk about everything, decided to go out on sunday, the next day she tex me an said am sorry but i am still in ... (244 words)