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female
age
30-35,
*irst time lover
writes: We'll I have been dating my brothers best friend for about ten months. The only this is that it's been a secret from my family because my brother would kill him. He is 26 and I am 22. I meet his family went to his family events and they all liked me and I liked them. He took me out on valentines day made me a date to a wedding have me birthday presents and everything. I on e went through his phone which is not good to do and he was talking to other girls I told him I saw and he said it's an ego thing and he never sees them he just likes knowing women like him. I told him I wanted to tell my brother and he lives with my brother and said we can't tell her because he's not financially stable to move out if it came down to that. This is where everything starts going bad. I went to happy hour with my brother and the boy I have been seeing was there with another girl. I asked my brother who the girl was and he said it is the girl he has been talking to. They came over to say hi to my brother and when he saw me his face went blank have me a hug I talked to the girl who is nice and looks like me to be honest. I texted him and said " your a liar never talk to me again" long story short the next day I guess he knew i was done and he puts pictures up of them together and is telling our mutual friends that me and him were not working out which is news to me and that he didn't like us being a secret even though he's the one who wanted to keep it one. I honestly want to go over them and tell him how much of a liar he is how he is not a man how he went behind my back how he handled everything wrong but everyone is telling me to just stop do nothing say not him. What sucks is that he is my first love ever and I don't understand how he could do this to me. The worst part is is that during sept-may I love with him and my brother and he is going to have to move out. I just don't know what to do. Do I tell my brother do I say anything to him how do I stop crying. Another important part of information is I'm a virgin so we never had sex I told him only of we were told everyone we could , and he is very sexual as he does steroids he has a lot of testosterone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2014): I think its time to move on!
He wants to keep you a secret for his own reasons and still plays the field. If he was that serious about you he would have told everybody no matter what the consequences is.I know you might feel hurt and betrayed but rather now than later. He is not worth your tears. Believe me, I have been there, its not a nice place to be in right now but you sound like a sensible girl with good morals. I wish you all of the best and I'm sure love and happiness will find you when you least expect it.
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