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writes:I have recently been away with a group of friends including my best friend ,her husband and his cousin. I hadn't met this cousin previously but had heard friends talk about him and he is kind of connected to where I work, I knew I would get on well with him which we did but it was very platonic on my side at least, until I got drunk and we nearly had sex. My best friend was very angry with me for flirting with him so she doesn't really know the full story of what happened, although she isn't stupid and knows something went on. I was so drunk that I am struggling to remember the night to be honest and feel so ashamed of my behaviour, but he doesn't regret anything, in fact I think I have hurt him by being so disappointed in myself. I am overreacting? Should my friend know the full extent? I feel really sorry for hurting people with my out of character behaviour.
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reader, Staceily  +, writes (8 July 2014):
 Why is your best friend angry you were flirting with her husband's cousin? No, you don't need to tell her the extent, its really none of her business in any way. As the previous aunt said, apologize for feeling embarrassed and let it go. Not a big deal at all. I just really don't get your friend being angry...
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 July 2014):
 Quite frankly what you got up to with her cousin, or didn't get up to, is none of your friend's business.
Apologise to the cousin, tell him your attitude towards him was a result of your being embarrassed at your out of character behaviour ....
And then leave it at that.
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