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writes:I am 17 years old about 7 moths ago I slept with a guy for the first time I left him . And now there is a new guy I slept with him, Because he said it was the right thing to do we have been together for 1moth and 2 days ago I cheated when he left me at a party. And now a don't now what to do the guy I cheated with is my ex and best fend
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reader, M Proops  +, writes (3 January 2014):
+1 auntyBimBim
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (3 January 2014):
 What do YOU think you should do?
Your ex is not your best friend, best friends do not encourage, nor participate, in getting their best friends to cheat on boyfriends, because best friends know that is not in their friends best interest.
Sleeping with your boyfriend after only one month of dating was not the right thing to do, him leaving you at a party was also not the right thing to do.
What I think you should do, since you asked, is to not have anything to do with boys for a while, but to take some time and decide what you want from your life ..... think about what you would like your future to look like. If you decide you want a future full of sexual entanglements and not knowing who are your friends and who just want to use your body then continue as you have started. If, on the other hand, you decide you want something a little better than that for yourself, then make a conscious effort to mix with the sort of people you want to be, not with boys who leave you at parties or with boys who encourage you to cheat on boyfriends, or who talk you into having sex very easily.
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