Was he just trying to get laid, or did he like me?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I went to a huge party at a hotel in the city last night and this guy comes up to me and my friend and asks me what my name is and if i wanna dance. I say sure and he takes my hand and says "come here". So we dance and I'm a terrible dancer and I tell him I'm not used to this, I don't go to parties a lot and he says what do you do then and I tell him I'm in nursing school and i ask how old he is and is says 28 and I tell him i'm 21. We're dancing and he says, "you're kind of shy right" and I say "no, i'm just not used to this" and then he asked if I was nervous and I was like "no I'm just not used to this" then he says, "you are really cute though" and i tell him he's cute too. He was smiling a lot at me and then he says "do you wanna try something crazy?" And i say what? And then he kisses me and we made out for like a good 20 seconds. Then we're dancing and he looked kind of bored so I say if you wanna go you can, and we kinda stopped but it didn't look like he wanted to stop dancing. BUt because I said you can leave if you want, I think he got the wrong idea. So i go back to my group of friends and were sitting at a table drinking and i see him come over and he sits next to me and puts his arm near my butt and we're drinking and talking and i ask if he wants to dance so we're dancing and he's kind of kissing my cheek and holding me and he tells me to hold him. and then we dance for a little while longer and he says alright i gotta go see my friends and so he goes and then my friend and i have to leave and I tell him let me give you my number and he says oh ill give you my card. So i texted him last night (a couple hours after i saw him) and this is how the convo goes:

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