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Are we going somewhere or is this just casual sex?

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Question - (10 October 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2013)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i dated a guy for a few months and than things got complicated and we broke up , but i miss him and he says he wants to be good friends that that is better than strangers but we've been hanging out again and we just can't resist each other we end up having car sex after hanging out , we've seen each other twice this week and he's suddenly trying with us but i don't know of it's to hook up with me or if we are going to fix things between us, now that we hang out it's way better than when we were together maybe because we missed each other , anyways he told me something today , that what have i been up to because , i wasn't as good when we were together. I mean now when we have sex i please him and i give him way better head and i think it's because i try and actually enjoy it now , and try to give him something to miss so he could become mine again, but what should i do to find out if were going somewhere or just casual sex

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2013):

It is just sex for him. I have been where you are now. Don't be naïve. Think about why you broke up in the first in first place. Have a serious talk with him, ask wwhat he wants. That will be the only way for to know for certain.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (11 October 2013):

chigirl agony auntThis is just sex to him. And you can not sleep your way into.a relationship. Come on, thats something naive teenagers believe. This is just sex to him, nothing else. If you want a relationship you have to tell him. But look hard at why you want him. It did not work out ghe first time. What makes you think it will work now?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (10 October 2013):

Honeypie agony auntStop having car-sex. Ask him out or to your place. Cook him a dinner and then TALK before having sex.

He might NOT want to get back in a relationship because he gets better sex now with not responsibilities.

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