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writes:Hey,this is a question that gets asked often. I've been getting friendly with a man. We went on three dates, he called me after all three to tell me how much he enjoyed my company. The last time we went on a date, he called the next day and told me how much he cares about me and how attractive I am etc. I replied back to one of his text's shortly after, and I have heard nothing since. He constantly updates his Facebook status so I know he's on that. What's going on? From texting and calling everyday to nothing. Is he playing mind game's, because I have no tolerance for that.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 November 2013):
 are you SURE he got your text.
texts sometimes do NOT get sent as they are not a primary for the phone company and they "piggy back" them other data packets on the network.
this happened to me a few months back. I sent a text to my son and he never got it and I thought he was being a jerk to me... when I SPOKE TO HIM (emphasis on SPOKE) he said "oh I never got that text mom" and I believe him.. it was a casual invite to stop by for dinner and he was mad he had not gotten it!
so you sent a text and he never responded... why didn't you follow up with a call to make sure he was ok? you see him on facebook why not send a message... maybe he's waiting for you to respond to him...
sounds like it might be a communication issue.
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reader, Keeley345 +, writes (13 November 2013):
Sorry to say it but you've been 'dumped'. He is no longer interested and obviously cannot be bothered to tell you or end things like a decent person. This happened to me too and it was hurtful and confusing. It's easier for some people to break off contact rather than see you face to face or talk over the phone. Why? Because they may not want confrontation or a crying person begging them to reconsider. They'd rather you assumed YOU were to blame somehow so not communicating with you enables this. It's much easier to disappear than have to take responsibility for ending things with you. A coward he is but alot of people do it sadly. It's disgraceful anyhow. What do you do? Nothing. If you get a hold of him I doubt you'll get a positive response. Don't pursue him. If he wanted you he'd keep in touch. Trying to contact him will make you look desperate and make him close up further. People like him are not worth the energy.
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