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writes: Some guy(I see him barely once in a WHILE and just say hi to) recently chatted with me a bit more about himself and just as he was about to leave gave me his business card offering his services but he also says he wrote his cell number just if I want to call him. What should I do? is he trying to signal me something else by the way he's 5yrs older (if that matters). I am really interested in him but don't want to make a fool of myself by misinterpreting him giving me his cell number. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the input everyone.
Next time i see him and if I get the courage to I will complement him on something since he once complemented me before, and after that I'll try to see if he is more direct. I'll keep guys posted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2013): I'm a Neanderthal when it comes to such matters. He probably is interested, but he's trying to take the wussy way out. A guy, if he wants to call you, will ask for YOUR number, and then he'll use it. Wait until you see him again, then flirt with him, making it clear that you're interested and available. If he wants to, he'll ask. It all goes back to caveman wiring (seriously), when the men had to chase for the hunt. They still like it! Feel free to bludgeon me over the head with a club for my antiquated views, but I stand by this one.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 June 2013):
It's certainly promising that he reciprocates. I think it would be safe to send a text saying something like thanks for help and offer and such and you'd love to chat more about it over coffee or lunch.
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