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writes:So this is probably going to make me sound pretty pathetic but it's been on my mind all day.I guess I've got a crush on a girl I work with and would be open to the idea of dating her, I just haven't figured out how exactly to bring it up yet and I've just been building up roadblocks in my mind stopping me from asking her out.Anyways, so it turns out she knows I've got a thing for her and she's known done for a week or two but this hasn't changed her behaviour at all (still kinda flirty). The flipside is she hasn't (or I haven't realised if she has) tried to initiate anything further.I'm guessing it's a good sign our interactions haven't changed even though she knows I like her? Is she just waiting for me to make a move? Or should I just forget the whole thing?Ta
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2013): Ask her out !
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reader, Laurie! +, writes (22 June 2013):
 First of all I don't think it is pathetic of you to think like this at all. You obviously like this girl a lot and I find it sweet that you are a bit shy to ask her out.
The fact she's still a little flirty towards you might point out that she's interested. Maybe she hasn't changed anything about her act around you, because she wants you to make a move. She is probably curious to see what you will do with your crush on her.
I think you should just go for it and ask her out.
Don't be afraid of her turning you down, if she totally didn't like you she would have shown you that from the moment she knew you liked her.
Good luck!
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (22 June 2013):
If you live your life afraid of rejection you're never going to get anywhere with women. Not to mention, the longer you wait to ask her the greater your odds of getting rejected.
Just do it. If she says no don't feel bad, it just means you're not her type or she may not be looking to date anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2013): How about waiting until after your shift is over, and asking her if she would like to go out and see a movie on one of your nights off.
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