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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need relationship advice, please.I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 yrs, we've had our ups and downs just like any other couple but I've noticed that we aren't close enough like I see other couples act. We see each other at least once a week not more than 3 times or maybe 2 times a week. We live 30mims away but I wish I could spend more time with him. We hardly take pictures together, we hang out but we don't do nothing much, just eat at a simple place and drive around or hang out at his place where, he still lives with his family and so do I.My dream is to have a family with him but I feel like he's not ready even though he tells me he wishes the asme. Just today we were going through what we want in the future and he didn't bring me up. He wants to get a better job and feel better for himself. Since I didn't hear me in his future plans I didn't bring up mine because in my future I saw him.I'm bummed out, I'm 28 and he's 29, I feel as I'm getting older and I don't understand what I should do. I dont want to have kids until I am married, yet I don't think that's anywhere near and i don't have other plans, my dream is to be a mom. Is it best to move on?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 December 2013):
 Time to have "the talk" and find out where you are going
at your age after 4 years if he doesn't know he wants to marry you and progress the relationship then he does not.
it may be time to end the relationship.
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