A
female
age
41-50,
*ibob
writes:I feel attracted to a man in my workplace but I have never been able to know how he feels for me. I find it quite difficult to understand his behaviour towards me. At times, I catch him looking at me longingly while at other times he make as if he did not see me although I know he always notice when I'm around. Sometimes he just ignores me plainly, even turns his head away when he sees me and it hurts me. I tried to become his friend, to talk to him but he kept his distance. He's very friendly with many people especially the female attendants but he has never been friendly with me. I wanted to talk to him about my feelings. However due to the fact that he never became close to me as a friend, I could never have the courage to tell him about my feelings. What should I do? Forget him as he's not interested and move on?
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (9 August 2012):
 Yes forget him. For all you know he already has a girlfriend or wife and this would surely be a dead end for you. Obviously he's not that interested in you and just because he casually glances at you now and then doesn't mean a thing. Are you sure it's not just wishful thinking on your part? It's okay we've all been there. Just move on so you can meet someone who's available.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 August 2012):
 sadly, he's not interested in you in the way you would like him to be...
it would be best to not hold out hope.
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