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writes: I have a guy im in a long distance relationship with and i want to break up. Whats the best way to do it without hurting him.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (9 August 2012):
Then you are not serious about breaking up and would rather string him along. I am not sure how one "gets romantic" long distance anyway. Good luck to you.
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reader, Biguy12345 +, writes (9 August 2012):
Biguy12345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI tried that once. Then he got romantic and I chickened out
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reader, person12345 +, writes (8 August 2012):
There's no way to break up without hurting someone. Just say it as nicely as you can, either over Skype or phone (NEVER over email or text). Just tell him you care a lot about him, but the distance just isn't working out for you. And I agree with Bondgirl, don't contact him afterwards. Let him heal.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (8 August 2012):
If he really likes you, there is no way to do it without hurting him. Just be honest but kind. Then, do not have contact with him afterward. If you do, you'll just confuse him.
"Tony, I'm sorry, but having a long-distance relationship is not going to work with us."
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