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*adyIris
writes:Hello, lately ive been having problems with my looks. I feel like all my friends are becoming prettir than me. They all have become super pretty and get alot of guys and i dont. even my own best friend, people tell me im prettier than her but i dont know, she is outgoing muslum average hieght nice black hair and got a nice pear shaped body plus bigger boobs. Im a tall shy white girl with light brown hair and got a nice butt and a cuter face (so ive been told). But she gets hit on more than i do and im happy for her but i cant help but feel a little jealous... Is there anyway to be more attractive to men?
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (8 August 2012):
 there's a little secret here that you don't seem to know about. here's how it goes. if you want something to happen it won't. so you go out to a bar and say you are not giving your phone number to anyone and you are not interested in men. they go crazy over you and won't leave you alone. you have to be careful to be not too convincing. I have women after me like you wouldn't believe when i use this tactic. One tried to pinch my bum, one tried to steal me wallet. they all want my phone number. it must be heaven. now you know don't tell everyone.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 August 2012):
 Being "a very confident woman' may help, but being a little shy is also sweet and attractive. I doubt that you really have any problem here, except youth. Keep being you, and do your best to look nice and the guys will come for you.
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (8 August 2012):
Hi there. There is nothing more attractive to a man than a very confident woman.
A woman who feels good about herself and accepts herself totally, for who she is.
She doesn't go around comparing herself to others all the time and doesn't feel less than.
Just as long as you keep yourself clean and tidy and wear nice clothes that flatter your figure, you really can't go too far wrong.
And as long as you genuinely like people and care about them, and show kindness and respect for everyone that you meet, well those positive feelings come right back to you in return.
And remember that you are still physically growing up, and will no doubt continue to change in your looks and body shape, over the next few years up until about the age of 25. So there are probably a few more years left before you are completely mature as far as growing is concerned.
You will see that in another 5 years from now, you will look even better than you do right now.
So just enjoy your life, and enjoy being you - without any self judgement.
Life is too short - so make the most of it.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (8 August 2012):
 Legitimately the top thing that I am told is attractive whenever I ask my male friends is confidence. You are counting yourself out before you even meet a guy because you keep telling yoursef your friends are prettier than you. This is not just unhealthy, but can lead to a vicious.circle of not feeling pretty not being confident not recieving compliments not feeling pretty etc.It shouldn't be a competition between yourself and your friends. They have their looks and you have yours and you have to learn to be happy with yours regardless of what ia going on with them.Also, there is no way to attract 'men'. There are was to attract specific men with specific things, but nothing works for all men because they are all different. Maybe you've just been around more guys lately who like big breasted muslim girls. That does not mean you're unattractive.Overall, as soon as you start feeling confidence in yourself people will notice and feel better being around you. I suggest for a connidence boost to maybe revamp your wardrobe, because changing your look may help you see all of your positive attributes. If that is not in your current budget, there are always ways you can alter your current clothing to be more trendy or a better fit. There are always thrift stores as well which sell cute things for very low prices.I wish you the best of luck :)
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