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writes:I currently live in California and I'm in very close relationship with my boyfriend. We've been together for about 8 months. However, In a couple of weeks I'll be returning to college on the east coast. I know it's the right thing for me to go back to school... I took a gap year to figure some things out and now I'm ready to return. I'm just feeling really depressed because I love my boyfriend so much, and it's hard for me to imagine being happy next year without him in my life. We originally thought we'd break up, but now we're talking about a long distance relationship with visits and summers together. The only thing is that my boyfriend gets insecure and jealous sometimes even though we spend so much time together.. If i move away I'm worried it will not work out because he will wonder if I'm seeing someone else. He is fourteen years older than me, and in a different part of life. Sometimes I try to imagine what our relationship would be like if I stayed here on the west coast..I just don't know what to do! I really love him but is it time for me to move on? How can I make the break up easier and avoid feeling depressed? I feel like I can't see the relationship with a clear head anymore. thank you for any advice you might have.
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