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writes:Dear cupidMy bf of 2 yrs never have time for me nowadays. Never calls, never picks up the call. I always hv to apologies even for his mistakes, always takes me granted. I just want him to be nice to me, i do everything he wants but I don't get anything in return. What should I do, please help me. I am really tired of being like this, I like to be taken care of and appreciated sometimes. Reply to this Question
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reader, princesskilala +, writes (22 August 2012):
The fact that he makes you apologize for his mistakes is a big flashing red flag. He is undeserving of you because he can't even see his own flaws and own up to them. The beauty in owning up to ones flaws is that one can see and appreciate others. This guy will never change unless he really wants to. I used to have a bf like that and putting up with him left me feeling helpless and without an identity. And in the end when I finally gathered the remaining shards of what used to be me, I ended it and he wasn't phased at all. He acted like he didn't care. Now I'm better off without him. But then again it's up to you. You can try talking it over one to one and if that doesnt work then ask yourself how much more of this treatment will you be able to live with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012): I say it's time for you to move on because it sounds like he has put you on the back burner and doing his own thing so if I were you I would take the pain and move on instead of sitting around woundering if he going to call. He probably only call when he need something.
If he love you then you wouldn't have to want him to be nice to you. He probably doesn't pick up the phone because he just might have another girlfriend...I know you don't want to hear this but he is using you. If he cared anything about you then you wouldn't be have these feeling. You are still young and there's plenty more fish in the sea or when one bus pull off another one pulls up.
Be a strong women.
Hope the best 4 U!!!!!!!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 August 2012):
 The guy that you described sounds very self-centered... and as if he doesn't have time for a "girlfriend...."
Soooo, DON'T BE THE "GIRLFRIEND" THAT HE DOESN'T HAVE!!!
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012): i think the best thing to do is to talk to him about it say if he wants to keep you he has to change !! and if he loves you he will if he doesnt he doent desurve an amazing woman like you !
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