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*exybabe13
writes:So recently I met this guy in Georgia and ever since then him and I have been flirting and making out,and you can say that we are dating. The problem is I'm leaving in a few days and he tells me wants to have sex before I leave. I'm a virgin and I have no idea what to do. Should I proceed?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 August 2012):
 No. Don't do it.
You only recently met him and you will be leaving soon, WHY on Earth have sex with him?
Make it a sweet summer fling memory, that means no sex. If you try and add sex it will be a summer to regret instead.
And JUST because HE wants to have sex doesn't mean YOU have to have sex. Tell him, no sex.
Be smart. Don't be a statistic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012): No you shouldn't!
Why would you want to lose your virginity to a guy that you've not long known, and may never see again?
And if you haven't a clue what sex is about, then you're not ready anyway.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (22 August 2012):
 I agree with the other two posts. Why would you want to lose your virginity to some guy you hardly know and probably won't see again? Save yourself for someone you really care about, just as the others said. While some people just have sex to have sex, many more of us prefer to sleep with someone special or that we care about. You decide which you are and follow through.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (21 August 2012):
 Listen to person. You have nothing to gain from this, you probably will never see him again and you will lose your virginity to a summer fling. Please wait until you are in a committed relationship, it's much better and well worth it. He's the only one who stands to gain anything from this so I bet he is trying to convince you to have sex. A good rule of thumb is if you have to ask if you should be having sex, then you aren't ready yet and shouldn't be. It would probably become a regret.
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reader, Dangerously Enthusiastic.  +, writes (21 August 2012):
 It's illegal and you'll regret it!
Listen to us.
A summer fling means nothing.
Save it for that one guy. He'll come along one day and you won't need to ask anyone if you should, you'll know.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 August 2012):
 Why would you want to throw away your virginity like that? First off it's completely illegal for you to be having sex. Second off, I assume you mean you are leaving and either not coming back or only coming back for visits. What is the benefit to having sex with him for you? What do you stand to gain from this? It seems to me like only he benefits. He gets laid, you lose your virginity to a guy you probably won't see again. I think there is no chance you won't regret this. Hold out for a guy you care about. Or at least someone you know better. Don't lose your virginity to a summer fling.
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