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writes:I dated this guy for a year and a half. We've been through a lot. Then he dated my best friend and it killed me inside a little. After she dumped him I started talking to him again and started being friends. Then we started being Friends with Benefits. I told him I might start develop feelings for him, and we're basically dating anyway. He said we should just be friends so I can drive him to a stupid concert. Is there any chance I can convince this idiot that we can be in a relationship again?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 August 2012):
 No right-thinking guy, who has a woman who will be his FWB (read; "convenient and available lay") is going to willfully want to change that....
Think twice.....
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reader, Dangerously Enthusiastic.  +, writes (21 August 2012):
 I think he's being selfish.
It seems he enjoy's this FWB thing and plans to keep it that way.
I doubt he's considered your feelings or how you will feel. I don't think he really cares.
I don't think you can make it work really.
If you have to push him into it, it's not worth it.
Find someone that's willing and happy.
:)
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (21 August 2012):
I love how you acknowledge that he is an idiot yet you want a relationship with him. Just ask him if he wants a relationship with you. More than likely he as already thought about it AND made up his mind. There's no way to really forces someone to be with you.
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