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male
age
26-29,
*oushite
writes: SO its been 3 years now that i discovered i had premature ejaculation..just the other day i was giving my gf some foreplay for about 10 min..and then she wanted me to put it in and when i did i took it out immediately because i was going to cum...luckily i didnt cu inside of her..i have horrible premature ejaculation and i wish to get over it..but nothing helps so far..any more tips?? i really need help..i dont know how to face my gf anymore..my pride has been hurt by this.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (11 August 2012):
O.k. Well both of the Agony Aunts that previously posted answers to your question offered great advice.
Being a teenager, you're going to experience a lot of weird and awkward things sexually. But in time, hopefully with experience and acquired knowledge, all of those things will disappear. But I'd like to offer you advice that may be able to benefit you- and help prevent certain sexual problems. And that is to learn about Kegeling.
Best Wishes to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2012): First poster offered great advice, one thing I thought of is you said "luckily I didn't cum inside her" is she not in the pill? If she isn't taking contraception of some sort then even if she wants you to put it inside her be the responsible one and put on a condom! You seriously don't want the consequences 9months down the line!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 August 2012):
First of all, take a breath. It's okay! You are with many many guys your age in this. You mentioned pulling out in time...I'm hoping you were wearing a condom. Condoms in your case can slow things down a bit in the sensation department, which is a good thing for you.
You might want to consider relieving some of your sexual tension before you go out with your girlfriend, because that will help you last longer the second time. You were too excited this time, and having an insurance jerk before you see her could possibly help.
Don't worry about facing your girlfriend. She's into you, and in some respect, it's a compliment knowing that you wanted her so much that you couldn't control it.
When you feel like you're going to let it go too early again, pull out and grab the end hard, which sometimes holds off the ejaculation.
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