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writes:Hi aunty, im in a long distance relationship now. for a year. and we knew for two years he loves me and i love him too, its just the situtaion so difficult hes so frustrated about our distance that were far away from each other, the situation is im still studying and graduating next year, thinking to move in his country. but im thinking what was my life there with him. i miss him so much right now. like i have so many plans about us, but his the type of guy he dont know what was the next step to do, our relationship needs to level up. needs to get deeper situation. i reaolly feels hes the one for me. and to spend my life with, we talk about family. i wanted to open up to my boyfriend to get married since hes the type of guy doesnt know how to take action or thinking plans. i wanna do it. not to propose but to tell him how we should make plans. for closuring the distance. its hard for both of us that were like this. so please help me to give me so idea. how to tell him, the nice words to let him think that im right that we need to make action and plans getting married soon. but how will i tell him ? without looking myself nuts or desperate asking him. i know that he should be the one who thinks that not me, but to be honest my bf is so weak he has not like other guys who think planning, hes not being a man who handle the situation, its always me that lift him up when his sad, im the man of our relationship not him. but i know deep down he got something i havent discovered yet.
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (11 August 2012):
 Mention marriage cause that's what you want and like and he will ask you then you will be together happily ever after he most in likely is thinking that same thing but if he weak is that quality what you want in marriage he may not think your ready to jump the broom so communicate thoughts and ideas
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reader, G_D  +, writes (10 August 2012):
 while reading this I was thinking of my ldr gf .. ;)
I thought that the question is asked by her..
in every line .. same what she thinks of me ..
well.. you just need to confirm that he is interested in marriage or not ? maybe he is just interested in being in a relation .. nothing more ..
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