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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well, about a month ago one of my boyfriends cousins told me that my boyfriend had dated a guy long distance before. I was curious so I openly asked my boyfriend if he was bisexual, I told him that if he was I'd still love him and that it wouldnt change my feelings toward him. He denied it, after about a half hour of talking he came out and told me that he has given head to a guy before. After a few days I brought it up face to face privately with him and asked, he denied it up and down laughed and said that it was a big joke! About a few days after that I went on his phone and looked up Craigs list for a car when a messaged popped up from his phone. It was a message that a guy had wrote back from a male 4 male add. I have no idea what to feel..Is his bisexual? or am I just over thinking everything??I wouldnt ever have a problem with it as long as he is just honest with me. What would you do in this situation??
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (10 August 2012):
There’s definitely something to this. One story from a cousin you might be able to dismiss as a joke, but his own admission that he has had a sexual encounter with another man, and this advert that appeared on his phone, is just all too much evidence. Talk again with him privately, explain what evidence you’ve seen and ask him, if he does not have some degree of attraction to males, to explain all this evidence. Tell him that you’re not prepared to be lied to and that you deserve the truthful explanation, whatever it is. You deserve honesty. If he thinks he needs to protect you from the truth he’s doing a poor job of it, it’s best that he comes clean and lets you deal with whatever it is.
I wish you all the very best.
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