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writes:Thanks to all who take the time to look and answer this question. I worked on a campaign last year and met a guy who I have been dating. I thought we were getting along fine but out of the blue he ended the relationship, said we would be 'friends' and that he wanted me in his life as a friend but also hoped that I would meet someone who is right for me. He also was firm that I should not give up on the organization through which I met him so I will keep seeing him. One week he sends me friendly, even flirty emails but when I emailed him this week he did not respond. I was in a long term relationship for many years and guess I am not much good at all of this....if anyone can give even a shred of feedback on what is going on here...I would appreciate it.
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reader, agony_emz  +, writes (6 May 2007):
 hi there!!!
to be honest i think he is being like this so he knows that you are still interested with him!! giving him a sort of ego boost!! i think that you should forget all about him hes wasting your time and giving you false hope! its always hard to come out of a long relationship and expect you to automatically find the dating world easy!! it's always changing so dont think that your not good at it! relax, go out with the girls for shopping trips or nights out and get used to the vibe of being on you independant and men will see this, the real you, the relaxed you which they love! but dont go looking for someone it never works let them find you, everyone women wants to be swept of her feet n this is the way to do it! dont ever give up hope there is someone out there for you!! just enjoy yourself!! and forget about him he isn't the one for you so move on!!
good luck x
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