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writes:I am a twenty two year old, bisexual female. I have recently befriended a girl who is eighteen, and bisexual, though her last relationship with a woman was when she was sixteen. My friend also now has a boyfriend; one that she's had for two years now. Lately though, she and I have been spending a lot of time together. We love each other very much, and we tell one another constantly. We even spend the night together and cuddle. We are usually completely wrapped up in one another; her legs wrapped around mind, her head against my shoulder, and her arms around my waist. I've been terrified lately that what we're doing is somehow 'wrong'. There's an obvious intimacy in our relationship, while it isn't overtly sexual. It's gotten to where I miss her when she's not around; where it's odd to sleep without her in my arms. Is she 'cheating' on her boyfriend? Is it normal for college girls to cuddle like this? And do you think there's a chance she sees me as more than a friend?
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reader, bear999  +, writes (5 May 2007):
In my opinion she isn't cheating unless you have kissed each other or more. I think she may see you as more than a friend if you are cuddling each other as you've described. The only way to find out though is to talk to her see where both of you stand and if she doesn't think of more than a friend then at least you can stop wondering. Just ask her how do you think her boyfriend would react if he saw the way you cuddle each other an the fact you say you love each other? then say you really care about her and ask her if she shes you as more than a friend?
Hope this helps x
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