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writes:Does he like me?Ok here goes:He catches my eye very often in the class/fields/common room.When he talks to me he listens to what i have to say and goes out of his way explaining things he has just said to me again.He smiles and his face and eyes go all cute when he talks to me.He likes teasing me when we talk.He acts like i don't exist in front of his mates and exHis friends all have told me they fancy me (4 friends)He Knows I like him.[[The thing is that I do think he fancies me. But i guess he is tooo shy to take any steps. Also when he ignores me its a bit annoying. Could he not be asking me out because his friends like me??]]I am super confused :(
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reader, cupidrequired  +, writes (6 May 2007):
im in exactly the same position as you so i really understand how your feeling and how hard it is to stop thinking about it, even if you not thinking about him, your thinking about what you should do about the situation. Somebody recently asked me what would be worse a)never knowing what could of been or b)telling himand getting the wrong answer. ive decided that life is too short to be wondering and sitting back. my advice to you and myself is to say something when the time is right, and what will be will be. as the saying goes there's plenty more fish in the sea if not. hope this helps you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007): thanks everyone :)
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (6 May 2007):
 i disagree, are you saying that all shy guys should be treated this way? that guys HAVE to be the one to initiate everything? what happened to the new movement where girls are allowed to make first moves?
to the writer: if his friends told you he fancies you, he probably does... he is either not ready for a gf, or is too shy. what you can try doing is spend some time together outside of school, or just do more togehter somehow. mention some movies, or hanging out together sometime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007): Honey- move on. its not worth it if a guy cant make it known that he likes you. You deserve better than that- just find another guy and maybe he will get the guts afterwards to make a move on you- for now dont waste any energy on him until he uses some energy to get you. hope this helps.
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