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36-40,
*ittle Blue Flower
writes:I want to wait for marriage to have sex, but lateley i been getting really tempted. I love my boyfriend to death and i want this to be very special for the both of us. Im a virgin and he is not,and sometimes he gets a little to carried away but i dont want to say no because i feel the same way. I feel totally ready but i want to do it until im married are there some techniques or things i could do to prevent having sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, aphrodites_pendant  +, writes (6 May 2007):
 The fact that you obviously feel very strongly about what you want is great. On regards to resisting those urges its hard to say really - i would suggest chocolste but if we girls had chocolate every time we were sexually frustrated we'd have to spend our lives in the gym! Perhaps talking to your partner and ask him to be less tempting maybe be a good idea. Or depending on your views indulge him in a little foreplay to help him out. Obviously everyone has these urges and there are hard to control sometimes. By giving him something he will not feel completely frustrated and it may be enough to keep you holding on.
Aphrodites Pendant x
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reader, miss fit +, writes (6 May 2007):
try talking to him.
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