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*anada guy
writes:hi...ive been married now for about a year and a half and before my wife and i were married our sex life was hot and exciting. but now that we are married things have cooled off and she has started with all these rules. like no sex after 10pm and she gets upset when i suggest something new. she oftens asks how i can be bored after only a year of marriage. please help
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reader, canada guy +, writes (10 May 2007):
canada guy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmm...so far things have been a bit better. the other night as we were driving she suggested that we take a drive into the country and do it in the back seat. i think it was the hottest sex ive ever had with her. so yeah and ive started trying to to be all over her when we go to bed and she appreciates that alot...thanks for your responses
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reader, penta  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 I understand the "no sex after 10:00" thing -- and I think if you don't want her to start thinking that you only want her for sex, you might allow her to set rules for the usage of her body. I know that sounds harsh. But she's not saying she doesn't want sex, she's just saying that there are certain times that sleep is more important, right?
How 'bout an afternoon delight? How 'bout right after the dinner dishes are done? How about making a point of kissing her at 9:00, before you head to bed?
I began to dread getting into bed with my husband, because I went to bed when I was tired and wanted to sleep, but once I was there, my husband seemed to take my presence as an invitation. And early in our relationship he seemed to want to always do something around 2:00 a.m. If we're on vacation in a motel, maybe. But at home when I'm asleep I WANT THE SLEEP!
I hope my over-sharing gives you an idea. Don't resent her rules. Work with them. She may be a lot more flexible and give them up if you try to see her side of it.
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (5 May 2007):
 hello canada guy,
maybe she's been busy and tired?
anyway, not everything is about sex..
so no sex after 10..do it earlier? or in the afternoons?
or just at weekends.
good luck.
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