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writes: My boyfriend and I live together. He received a letter from an old high school flame. (30 years ago) She wants to meet up with him for one day or a weekend. He says there is nothing to this it is all her. I say why would she write you a three page letter if you said you did not say anything that would give her the idea you were not interested in a one night stand. Am I over reacting?
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reader, elsie  +, writes (7 May 2007):
 i dont think you are overreacting at all.someone that seemingly just leaps out of nowhere and wants to meet up with him after all those years ago??i could understand it a bit more is your hubby was invited to a school reunion with other people?i think it would give you more peace of mind if you aired your concerns and tell your partner that the whole idea makes you feel uncomfortable and youd rather he didnt meet up at all.let us know how you get on?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 May 2007):
 Maybe I'm missing the point of your problem here but don't you keep in touch with old friends regardless of sex? Do you want a relationship with all of them? I think she's just establishing contact with an old friend. It sounds like you have trust issues with your husband and maybe there's a very good reason for this or maybe you're just feeling a bit insecure right now, I can't tell which, but if you trust your husband then let him meet this woman. It doesn't mean they'll get back together, they just want to be friends. He might have loved her once but he married you, not her.
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