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writes: i met a lad, my brothers mate when i recently went away to visit my family.We went out and we kissed but nothing else. When i returned home we kept in contact and he was saying that he really like me. I am now moving up to this place ( bearing in mind it is not for him its for education purposes) and he has gone back with his ex but is still saying when i move up there he wants to be with me. Even worse his ex is pregnant with his kid.I spend alot of time with my bro when i am there and he will be there! wot shud i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2007): The answer is simple, he is already taken so stay very far away from him. You mentioned you are going for your education, well there will me many young lads in that uni or college who would be better suited to you. please cut all contact with this person because by listening to him you could find yourself eventually falling for him.
Concentrate on your education first and try to make some new friends at your new uni or college.
good luck
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (6 February 2006):
 Unless you are into threesomes...forget him. He may be a great friend to your brother...but he will bring you nothing but sorrow, trouble and more sorrow. You don't HAVE to date someone just because they run in the same circle as you...SO what. Feel sorry for the preggo...and send her a nice baby gift and don't look back.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (3 February 2006):
 Stay away from this toxic guy until he is free and single. You shouldn't be responsible for helping break up a family unit.
Look at how he is treating the pregnancy and back off until the dust has settled.
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reader, lori +, writes (1 February 2006):
this is a tough one for you but you must stop seeing him he has a child on the way and if i had a pound for every time i heard my wife or girlfriend doesnt understand me i would be a rich woman you see men like to have there cake and eat it too his girlfriend is pregnant and he will have to maintain that baby for 18yrs and may even want contact and from experiance this is not easy besides that he is decieving both of you if he really wanted to be with you he would tell his girlfriend and end it now not wait untill it suits him tell him you have feelings and you want him to make his mind up before you get hurt do this before you move im sure when the baby is born he will be too wrapped up to even think about what you are doing
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