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writes: hi there i need advice from people i am in love with this really wonderful man but i asked him the real question " do you really deep down inside want to be with me?" the only reason i did that was because his moods to me lately have changed dramatically and not for the best either. he has not answered me and he said he won't. does he really want to be with me i dont know what id do if i lost him please someone help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, shania +, writes (31 January 2006):
If he has been in a bad mood with you and its been going on for a while then you are entitled to asking him that question.Trouble is he didnt give you a straight answer.Is he having problems at work? is he stressed out over something? If thats not the case then he must be hiding something.You must sit down and have another talk with him,tell him that you care about him but you are worried as well because he hasnt been himself lately.Does he want this relationship to continue...maybe he is having second thoughts about you and him but you need to know.If he still doesnt give you a straight answer then i would just have a break from him so that he can sort his head out,but i would stress that you shouldnt hang around,waiting for him to make his mind up...you need consideration as well,remember...he might be worth waiting for....but not forever. Good luck.
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