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writes: Hey there. I am feeling quite down/depressed at the moment and I would really appreciate some advice. I am an 18 year old girl and 3 weeks ago my boyfriend of 4 months finished with me. It was long distance as he lives in London and I live in Brighton and I got to see him every other weekend. He said that the reason why we finished was because of the fact he couldn't see me as much as he wanted to, but he said that he was still in love with me and he always will be. I love him too (at least I think I do) and I don't understand why he would not be willing to work at this relationship if he really loves me. He told me he still would love us to be friends and I said I would as well and he said that he cared for me so much so he would make sure we would get through this break up together. But the thing is, it has been 3 weeks now and I haven't heard from him at all. I miss him so much and it hurts me so much to think that he doesn't mean what he said as he hasn't even tried contacting me. Thank-you. It would be so great if I got some advice. All my friends reckon I am too good for him and I should just forget about him, but I can't. love Natalie xxx
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reader, lori +, writes (1 February 2006):
hello Natalie you poor thing long distance love is always hard i think your friends are right its time to move on i know its easy for me to say that, but if he really loves you he will contact you at 18 you will grow with more heart ache and believe me we learn by it you will become stronger in time and he will be a distant memory try to find someone nearer to home and stop wondering what hes doing or come to that who with go out with the girls with your head held high and keep saying to yourself i can get through this and when he calls tell him how much fun you've been having and it was the best thing that you both spilt up i hope very soon you will find someone who not only loves you but cares about you too its the most impotant thing in the world because a person that cares will never hurt you
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