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writes: Hey, I'm on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend. It's something that I have caused because, before I met her, she went on a rebound with this married guy (one of her managers) at work (who also slept with loads of other women at her work). He had a lot of influence over all the other guys at her work. He was Alpha Male. She knew he was married but he isn't in a happy marriage - he just stays with his wife for the little kid's sake.I want a girl with good morals. She has been loving to me for the past 6 months and faithful. She loves and adores me and will do anything to make it work between us. She knows she did wrong but she was having sex with him for 6 months. She did it in work so they didn't get caught - they didn't even go on dates, because she didn't want to think about it outside work, she just wanted the fun/sex out of it. She thinks that if it's ok for guys to just have sex with people ''no strings'' then girls should be able to also. I don't feel that way.I do love her but haven't been able to accept ther past.Any help?Rob
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reader, Mackie +, writes (14 August 2006):
Hi There Rob, I have a similar setup. I have been dating a girl for over 4 months now. She confided in me that she has had an affair with a married man only because the sex was so good. This happened before I met her. She said that she ended it, as they where busted. She seems so sincere and honest and the fact that she told me about it made me look past it. The problem is, I can not trust her although I should. Ikeep on thinking about the affair and it is always in the back of my mind. What do I do?
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reader, lori +, writes (1 February 2006):
you mean you never did anything you regret.Rob if you love this girl then you will leave the past in the past she has been true to you and thats all you need believe me there is no girl out there without sin or man come to that or anyone without a past please dont cut off your nose to spite your face otherwise you will be a very lonely man everyman needs a good woman and i think thats what you have found i went out with a married guy i didnt find out till it was to late i dont regret it why should i iv been married 16yrs now and have been totally true to my husband so go with the flow you will be fine
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