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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been spending time apart but i feel i can't trust him. I've spoke to my mum but it not do any work. I planned a night in for us both and he called me and said he's not coming. He was out playing football but what sort of match lasts 2 hours long just for fun? I need help as i want to sort things out between us. Can anyone help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, lucy +, writes (1 February 2006):
tell him exactly how you feel. dont wrory about looking paranoid-if he isnt as willing to make this work as you are then he's obviously not worthit but if he hasnt realised how insesnitive he has been then maybe he will change. hope this helps xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006): I would suggest that you tell him that you feel that time you spend together is not enough and it is impacting on the closeness and bond that is holding the relationship together.
I would tell him that you were really disappointed that he changed the plans at the last minute and that you are cool for him to spend time with his mates but not when he has a pre-arranged date with you. How would he feel if you blew him off to go shopping with your friend for a few hours?
I would suggest that you tell him how much time you think is reasonable to spend together and what you need from him and if he is not willing to provide that to you, you may need to consider finding someone else who will give you that time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2006): This guy seems like a total jerk if he would blow off a night with his girlfriend to play football with his mates. I would sit him down and tell him to get real or get lost!
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