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writes: I have seen my ex boyfriend after 20 years hes still the same and we have had fun togther hes married though I dont know whats going to happen between us both.He has a small child also and hes doing well for himself too so why do we see each other and want fun still. I have feelings for him .
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2007): You say he is married right? so what do you think this will do to his wife when she finds out? I say when because believe me if you keep up this crap she will find out!!And what about his child? my god are you nuts? they have a marriage and family.And you say he is " doing well" does this mean if he was "doing bad" you would not be seeing him?You can not just pop up after 20 years and expect to pick up where you left off!!Women like you make me sick go find your own man.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (2 February 2006):
 You say nothing about your situation. Do you have a relationship or kids that may be put in jeopardy by this *fling*. Is this a hankering after your youth/past/a time when things seemed less complicated? More info would be helpful please.x
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reader, willywombat +, writes (2 February 2006):
You say nothing about your situation. Do you have a relationship or kids that may be put in jeopardy by this *fling*. Is this a hankering after your youth/past/a time when things seemed less complicated? More info would be helpful please.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2006): Does he have feelings for you too? Do you expect to be back with each other again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2006): Hi :)I guess we are in a similar situation. I never stopped have feelings for my ex either and he says he has feelings for me too. He dumped me a few years ago because he couldn't endure the distance between us, so he says (we were in a long distance relationaship). I met him recently and all the emotions surfaced.I couldn't move on because the love has always been there and so have the expections that we will reunite one day.But I can only tell this isn't a comfortable situation and I wish I was the one he was sharing his life with. I truly hope this will be the case.Anyway, I know that I wasn't such a great help, but now you know you're not the only one.About moralistic remarks, I couldn't care less. I think it's up to us to decide what suits us best :)
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