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female
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anonymous
writes: Boyfriend of 2 years who has sent texts to another girl about a year ago, has now sent texts and phoned a different girl, but pleads to stay with girlfriend pleading his love and wants desperately to stay with the girlfriend. Should she ever trust him again and give him a 3rd chance or get rid of him? They have not long bought a house together and he has bought her a ring. They both have a lot to lose apart from the obvious emotional upset. What are the chances of him changing or should she give him the heave ho?
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reader, louise74 +, writes (7 February 2006):
I am just going through the same thing with my guy.
I saw dirty texts to an old ex of his and it broke my heart.
After alot of effort from him i think i am prepared to give him one chance,but one chance only.
I understand what you are going through and its easy for people to tell you to walk away,but you must live your life for yourself and be happy. i know that i will try but if i can't cope with it i will walk away because you cant live your life for others.
good luck with whatever you do and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2006): sounds like an idiot to me - he had one chance which everyone deserves but he blew it! break up now before he blows his 3rd chance
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