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writes: I love my husband dearly we have been married for only 3 months, but recently his cousin and I got into an argument. I had asked my husband not to bring him to my home until he apologizes to me for going too far. I will not do it and he told me that he will never choose between me and his cousin and the what hurt me the most he never stood up for me! What should I do i'm so heart broken.
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reader, PornStarKitty +, writes (1 February 2006):
i can understand your pov! its your home! and he shouldn't be in it! especially if he is going to fall out with you! i will agree with the first poster and say maybe its your attitude towards the cousin too! but you need to make it clear to your husband that you dont like his cousin! you definately dont want him in you house! althought he is your husbands family! maybe your husband is plaing piggy in the middle and has some sort of loyalty towards both of you! think about how he feels!! x
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reader, willywombat +, writes (31 January 2006):
This is terrible of your husband. You are his family and as such you should come first. I think regardless of the argument he should respect you wishes about who comes into your house. Sit him down and make him listen to why you are so upset.
As for the cousin, was it 6 of one and half a dozen of the other. Is there no chance you could calm the situation by talking to them directly? You don't say what the argument was about, and if it was a serious matter.
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