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writes: hey guys.As u all know i am 12 and in the sixth grade and i thought u guys could help me out with this problem i have. u see before me and my boyfriend hooked up a few months ago their was this boy in my homeroom that kept asking me if i would go out with him.i turned him down only because i really did not know him. Once i finally hooked up with my boyfriend i found out that my boyfriend was best friends with the guy that kept asking me out! Now later on in our relashonship i realize that me and the guy really r sorta alike.My friend told me he still likes me but i really don't know what to say to him if he asks me out again.If i say i don't know my BF will find out and dump me. i really like my BF but i like that guy too.What should i say or do with this situation?
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (3 February 2006):
 I'm sorry Sweetie Pie, I guess I don't understand what you are looking for. Are you hoping that someone will tell you to dump your boyfriend and go for it? Or see both of them and then choose. I can't give you advice like that, all I can say is try to figure out which one means more to you, and then be wih that one. As far as what should you say, I guess you should say to the one you don't choose to be with, sorry I don't want to be with you. Do what you feel will be the best for you, in the end being true to yourself is what matters. Good luck.
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reader, lover_not_a_fighter +, writes (31 January 2006):
 I think every girl experiances what you are going through right now at least once in there life. I know I have. No matter what someone is bound to get hurt. The best thing I think you could do is follow your heart, and do what you feel is right.
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reader, Sweetie Pie +, writes (31 January 2006):
Sweetie Pie is verified as being by the original poster of the question i get what your saying mommyofthree,but i just can't pick between the two.i know i'm at a young age and everything,but i know u have better advice than that!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (31 January 2006):
You just have to figure out which one you like more. If you break up with your boyfriend for this guy then you better be sure because I doubt that your boyfriend would be willing to take you back if you realize you made a mistake. At your age I wouldn't worry too much, the chances of you marrying any of these guys is pretty slim, this is a time in your life to have fun. Good luck.
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reader, here4u +, writes (30 January 2006):
Heya!I know the sort of situation you are in. The best thing to do is think about who you think will love and respect you the most. Or maybe who you love the most. When you make that decision, block out the other guy. Try and see as less as you can. Don't make any contact with him.I always find it easy to talk to both guys. Tell them both how you feel and if they love you that much they will understand.Hope it all goes well for you!Kim xxx
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