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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. The problem is, during the first few months of the relationship, I found out that he was talking to a lot of girls online, and not just a friendly chat. Well obviously this hurt me, but he has a way of making me forgive him. Nearly a year later, I still find myself feeling paranoid about all this. I can't help it. Please don't just tell me he's not worth it, because to me, he is worth it! I just don't know what to do..HELP :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): well first you have to trust him and if you dont then you have to sit down and talk to him about this..just say 'umm (name) are you sure yu want to be with me?' and if he says yes just say well because your always talking to alot of diffrent girls. and its not just a frendly convo
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2006): I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and recently discovered that he's been dating/chatting online. To me this is unacceptable. I broke up with him there and then. If your boyfriend is totally happy and satisfied in the relationship with you, why does he look for entertainment elsewhere? Can you trust him? Think for yourself. Wishing you love
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reader, gemmac +, writes (31 January 2006):
 Hi i had a very similar problem to you, but we are trying to move on now but it really hurt me and it plays on my mind all the time, but we have been together for 4yrs so i dont want to give up without a fight so that is what i say to you just keep trying to make it work make him earn your trust back. Gemma
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reader, mystify +, writes (30 January 2006):
 im sure if i can offer anything other than to let you know you are not the only one, my husband did stuff like that to me for like the first 3 months at least of our relationship, and i just couldnt let him go even though it was so hurtful and i cryed myself silly over it!
all i know is that it still haunts me & him now 2 years on, we still argue and cry over it , although generally i have had to get used to it (which in a way helps itself) the more he reasures me the better i feel , im not sure we have the most healthy relationship but we chose the same path you have and we know in spite of the occasional row and the regular need for ressurance we love each other more than anything else in the whole world, and that helps too.
i think what im trying to say is that time heals and you may not be able to forget but it is possible to get by if you truley love each other
good luck to you
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