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writes: I've liked this guy for a while who i get on well with, so i asked him out. he said no but said he liked me as more than a friend too, but he just didnt think it was the right time for him to have a relationship- he was too busy. i mean we are going through examinations in the following year, but surely if he liked me that much he would make time? would a guy just say he liked me back to make me feel better and less rejcted? cause i cant understand why he'd say no to a relationship if he did fancy me. i dont know what to do, please help. i really like him and we do talk. should i just try and push him out of my life or is there a chance he'll change his mind? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): If you and he like one another, and enjoy chatting, why not continue to do so casually? He said he is busy, and you both have exams coming up. He also said he doesn't think this is the right time for him to have a relationship.
One thing you can't do is to pressure him. If he said no to going out, you have to accept that, and get on with your life - maybe date some others, too. No need to fall in love with someone else; just have some fun dating casually. As mentioned before, stay in touch on a casual basis with him, and see what happens. If he was sincere in saying he likes you perhaps he will want to take up with you when exams are over and may be less busy. But don't count on it! Might happen, might not.
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