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writes:What's going on?for the past week i've been putting message's up on these board's about how she txting me saying how sorry she is 2 of dumped me i told u everything about the other saturday night on how i think it may of set thing's off. 1 week after us breaking up. i'm more confused than anything.i'm hearing rumor's about her dating another lad i told my ex about the rumor's and she say's there rubbish and people are out to hurt her because she's single. and then people on here say why would they lie and it got me thinking the people that have told me the rumor's have nofthing to gain. i was thinking my ex could of told people the rumor so i would get the idea and back off. today = i spyed on her. something i'm not proud of 1 bit. i wanted to know the truth and i've asked her 3 time's about her maybe cheating on me but she get's mad and call's me an idiot. why did i spy?last night i txt her and asked her to bring my shoe's to her work's she told me she would i got 2 her work's today and she was shocked and suprised to see me. and no shoe's. she told me she lefted her phone at her brother (where she's staying) i txt her at 5 2 6 2 this morning ask her if she wanted anything (sexual) she could just ask me and i would do it no question's asked. what did i see while i was spying?i waited till she finshed 4pm and i was sat far away she walked out the store and was walking to the bus stop and then she turned around and walked back into the store (work's at morrion's) and then she walked back to the bus stop once again. it seemed like she was waiting for someone. i saw 2 lad's running 4 the bus. and then my ex running behind them. i saw her board the bus. and i went home. but now i'm thinking maybe she board's the bus and then kisses her new boyfriend on the bus because if she kisses him outside her work's a girl i know will see and tell me. i know it was wrong to spy i just need to know the truth i don't know anything yet but i'm gonna do it again but this time when she board's the bus i'm gonna see who she sit's with and then ask her " when you'r coming home do u sit with anyone " or something on them line's and if she say's no but i see she does then she's a lier. we've been apart a week i would of thought she would of missed me 1 bit. but it seem's like she's not. she's telling me she don't eat or sleep (but no bag's under her eyes 1 bit). which if she not slept in a week she would of had bag's under her eye's. i kissed her on tuesday and she pushed me away saying she didn't wanna fuck my head up i told her she could never fuck my head up. do u think she may of got a new guy? but doesn't do anything untill they get on the bus so people at work don't start talking about them?it's been a week and i just want her back she's 20 i'm 25 been together 15 month's ... been throw everything with her = fight's, miscarrage, family fight's i'm not willing to let go so quick i just need to know the truth to move i think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006): Sweetheart, she does not want to be with you. When she says how sorry she is, or that she does not want to fuck your head up, she is just trying to be nice and soften the blow for you and make the transition easier for you. That is what it seems like because she doesn't seem to want anything from you. You should not be spying on her; you are not with her anymore; she is single and what she does with her time and with anyone else is none of your business. You, in fact, don't even have the right to ask her who she sits with on the bus. As for you offering her sexual favors, why would you do that? One can just hope she doesn't take you up on it because if she does you'll just expect her to get back with you. YOu need to let her be. Let her live her own life without having you spying on her or asking others to spy on her and give you every little detail of her life.
As for if she is seeing someone else, I'm not sure strangers can give you the answer to that. However, what's clear is that for her your relationship is over, and she does not want to be with you anymore. You have to stop analyzing her behaviour, her appearance and spying on her. Try to move on with your life and let her be.
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