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writes: Last night i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 10 months. It wasn't planned and was a bit out of the blue. Anyway, i am a little concerned that maybe something is wrong. It didn't hurt me at all which is good, it just felt a little weird if anything. What i am worried about is that it didn't feel all that great, it wasn't bad at all but it wasn't really nice either. In fact i didn't really feel much at all at times which has worried me. Shouldn't i have felt some pleasant sensation??? I don't know how to feel because i've been fretting about losing my virginity since i met my boyfriend and was so scared about it hurting etc and its been such an anti climax and i feel a little down. Its not his fault at all though, he was nice and we played around a lot but it didn't seem the big deal that everyone makes out.Do you think there might be something wrong? I have noticed that i get quite wet and excited so maybe this is a problem???Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, mjmoonwalker89 +, writes (24 December 2006):
 it didnt get good for me until many many times afterwards. the first few times usually arent great for many people. dont worry! getting wet and excited isnt a problem, its meant to happen :) just dont panic about it or that will just take over the whole situation and things wont get better. just relax and it'll be great ;-)
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