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He keeps going on about his friend who is a model and its making me insecure!!

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Question - (23 December 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2006)
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okay I've been with this guy for a few weeks, but I he's not making me really happy. He keeps saying how gorgeous his friend who is a model is. She just got a lay out in maxim. I feel really bad when he says "She's gorgeous!!". He's also made comments about my eyebrows. He thinks they're too thick. He thinks I should dye my hair in dark brown and he doesn't like my make up that much. He's told me that i'm gorgeous b4, but all these things he said make me not wanna like him. He also has a myspace page and I checked it today and found out that he's changed his pictures but he hasn't changed his status. It still says single even thought we're going out now. I'm not sure about this guy. He tells me that he has no friends really and i'm thinking he's just with me cuz he doesn't really have a lot of people to talk to. He's kinda cocky I think, he says he's gonna be a model and that he's hotter than the girl in maxim and that he's jealuos of her bcuz she's getting discovered quicker than him. I don't know if I should just dump him or if i'm just over reacting. He makes me feel insecure about my self. Any advice?

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A female reader, pica +, writes (24 December 2006):

I'm sorry you feel lonely - we all get that at times. But a relationship that puts you down is never the best option - it just drags you down as you are finding out. Thing is, during the time you're wasting with him you're not available to meet anyone else! I know it's hard and I realise you get some amount of comfort from it but in the long run you need something a bit warmer. Please put energy into that and feeling better about life. Putting it off won'tmake it any easier..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006):

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I just feel lonely to be honest. He's kinda my best option right now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006):

Part of being with together is making each other feel good about yourselves .. doesn't sound like that is going on here. Maybe you are filling a gap for him; also he sounds like he wouldn't want someone he felt would outshine and his fabby friends (no offence, he sounds very shallow). Finish with him and find someone who likes himself and you ;)

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A female reader, DinaLeila +, writes (23 December 2006):

DinaLeila agony auntIf anybody who you've only known for a few weeks makes you feel that bad you need to get rid of them and quick becuase they wil just develop a biggerhold on you in the future if you let it continue it's not worth it believe me. I've been there and I regret it and wish I'd listened to the advice handed to me. Dump him while you can.

Take care and Good Luck x

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A female reader, forgetmenot +, writes (23 December 2006):

forgetmenot agony auntHonestly I'd dump him. If he's being this much of an ass so early on it's just going to get worse. Do you guys really get along that well in anyway or are you just feeling lonely? I think you'd be selling yourself short by staying with someone who seems so critical and self centered.

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