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I can t move on as I really do care for her as a friend... but she doesn t care! What can I do?

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Question - (23 December 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2006)
A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello,

I think i m in love with this women. She makes me all warm inside, she makes me happy whenever she s around... its undescribable.

However she s mean. She expects that all guys run around her... actually they do i've made it clear to her that she means the world to me like 5000 times over the last 3 years. She keeps on reeating to "move on"

When i actually do move on she starts to ask me why i m moving on... why i m avoiding her... and i try to become a friend again.

Now its the holidays... i bought her a present and like she didn t even say thank you... i can t move on i really do care for her at least for a friend... but she doesn t care :(

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2006):

AngelofLove agony auntShe is using you, and enjoys the fact that you like her.

Move on for good, and only be friends with her is thats what you want, BUT on your terms and when you have another girl. She has had a chance, for 3 years! Find someone worthy of your love and affection.

Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006):

What will it take for this girl to leave you alone when she sees u've moved on? Seeing you with another girl perhaps? If in 3 yrs she hasn't dicided to atleast give you a chance, forget about it! There could be a sweet girl out there waiting for you, but how will you meet her if ur being held back by your "friend". (1) your friend has gotten used to the attention and is now being selfish or (2) she's actually feeling something 4 u but hates to admit to it! Whatever it is, she will know what she had when she loses you to someone else!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006):

If she doesnt care you shouldnt either. move on. forget about her. dont even think of her as a friend. and let her wonder why your avoiding her....she wont stop treating you like crap if you let her treat you like crap. honestly just forget about her she doesnt deserve you.

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