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36-40,
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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together in a long distance relationship for 2 years and 4 months. He is very insecure and jealous to say the least. He has a way of turning innocent things into huge problems example..when I saw an ex bf through a window..or when I had a coworker on my webpage..or most recently asking a classmate for a favor. I always fail to mention these things because I consider them to be insignificant so it doesn't even cross my mind to bring it up. Anyways, he broke up with me because he says I can't be trusted because I hide things. I know it sounds crazy doesn't it. We both know he has issues but I don't want the relationship to end because of something so petty. He says that it's over, that he loves me with his heart and mind and wants everything from me you can possibly have in a relationship, BUT, he can't be in a relationship with me anymore. I don't know whether or not he just needs time to get himself together to get over being upset and feeling betrayed..or if he's determined not to get back with me. Don't get me wrong I know our relationship has numerous obstacles but nevertheless I do love the guy and would do anything for him. Do I give him time or just let it be? After all, if he loves me like he says then he will come back, won't he?
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reader, Pankaj +, writes (24 December 2006):
ya u should talk to him about wat he is doing..make it clear ..try to spend some time or day with him no matter with any reason..know more about what he thinks ....hereally loves u thats y he think lots ..
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