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writes: I have slept with someone other than my boyfriend. That has been quite a while ago and I have not done it again. I just can’t understand why I would sleep with some which I know just 4 months or so, and I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and I have not. And I am not sure that I want to sleep with him (but I have thought of it) I didn’t know I guess I think things might change. Reply to this Question
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reader, AbitUpset +, writes (28 December 2006):
Simple - you may not have that sexual chemistry with your bf as you do with others. As you noted you may not be sure if you "Want to sleep with him". My advice move on, it would be a shame if you two take the relationship even further and you end up cheating on him then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006): don't worry about it baby because you didn't do anything wrong. may be you don't have the same feelings for him as you had for the other person
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006): It seems that the only person that would know the answer to this question would be you...it would depend on your attitudes about sex and intimacy and commitment and relationships and we know none of that about you.
It sounds to me like you were just into it for the sex with the other man, and with your boyfriend you are more serious and don't want to rush things as sex always complicates a romance and can even cause problems if you have sex too soon or before you are really bonded.
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