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writes: I'm in a long term relationship with my bf and I'm thinking about our future. We've talked about getting married and having kids someday. I really love this guy, more than you could possibly imagine, but he's not very 'practical'. He has behavioural problems which mean he can't hold down a job, gets in trouble with the law and there are some trust issues, as he doesn't understand boundaries all that well and can sometimes seriously flirt with other women and not be aware that he's doing anything wrong, which I know may one day go too far. He also has commitment issues, if we ever have any serious arguments he will just give up and try to end the relationship because it's too hard to work things out. Is there a chance he'll grow out of this, and it's just him being a teenager? I love this guy to death and I'd be so proud and happy to spend the rest of my life with him and have his children, but I just can't see us being together forever however much we may both want to be. Do I go with my head or my heart?
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reader, lovelylady +, writes (24 December 2006):
Go with your head . Get someone that's going to be a man!
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reader, emz4rocks4u +, writes (24 December 2006):
 I understand what you are going through.I had a boyfriend just like him.One day I relized that the rest of my life is important to me.Your boyfriend sounds like he is imature and I know how it feels to plan out a future with someone and feel that you cant part with them.If you value your future like I do then think about all the ups and downs of your relationship.Maybe you should try telling him if he doesnt Grow up then you cant be with him anymore.Love is Great but being inlove with a person, marying them ,and thinking about children is serious and your partner should take it seriously like you should.
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