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writes: I like this guy but he is not that atractive,he can be anoying most of the time,and his ex girlfriend is still his friend and he puts her befor me all the time,OH YEA and he is a bad kisser.I tryed talking to him about how I felt BUt he just told me that if i wanted him to not be friends with his ex than It wouldnt work out between me and himBut we have so much in common and when im with him he makes me laugh.I dont know if I should stay with him orif I shouldnt stay with him then how should I break up with him
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (26 December 2006):
 what exactly do you like about this guy, not a lot. Apart from having things in common and a laugh. Friends do that.
What exactly does he like about you, not a lot. Just to boss you around.
He does not respect you and you are better off moving on.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): Um, tell us again why you like this man??
Sounds like its more trouble than its worth!
If you want to break up with him, just tell him you don't think you and he are a good match; no need to get into a lot of explanations.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006): i don't think for 1 second u sould break up with him because he's anoying you say he's a bad kisser. that's something u could or may help him with.
him putting is ex before u is wrong.
u say " how should i break up with him? "
here is a way ... when he does your head in say something bad about is ex and when he defend's her say " u still lover her don't u " and then say " u can love her all u want because it's over " that would hurt him but maybe it will change him. so in the future with you or another girl he will never stand up for is ex before is present girlfriend.
but what would i know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006): Are you this person's girlfriend? Because, truly, it doesn't sound like you like him at all. You say that he's not attractive, a bad kisser, and annoying. Sure, it's great to hang out with people who are funny, but to be in a relationship with them, there has to be something more - especially a sense of tolerance.
I think that you should take a step back and evaluate your relationship with him. Do both of you consider yourselves to be in a relationship, or is it one of those "iffy" situations where you're not sure? You don't mention anything about the status of your relationship, which I think is something you should clarify.
I suggest that you sit this guy down and have "the talk" (haha, it sounds so terrible). Get on the same page with him. And if it turns out you do want to be in a relationship with him (and him with you, incidentally), then mention the problem that you are having with him and his ex.
Good luck, and have a good Christmas.
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