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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really like my boyfriend, and as far as i know he really likes me. We waited about two years before we could start going of for certain reasons. We have been going out 3 months. I don't get to see him very often because of both of us have busy lives but when we do see each other we love it. I am really good friends with his 3 best friends and he knows all my friends. When we had only been going out a few weeks lots of our friends had a night out. I couldn't make it for a family reason. That night he was flirting with my best friend adn signed her chest. Also recently he has decided to flirt with two of my friends. Asking one for a picture of her in her bra. He admitted to doing it when I asked him but he wont tell me why he asked. Guys : - I reali like him but will he continue to be a flirt if I keep giving him more chances although he knows he is hurting me bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Respect is very important in any relationship and if he does not respect your fellings, and you are getting hurt and humiliated by his actions, I suggest you move on and find somebody who will value and aprreciate you.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (12 June 2008):
you should really tell him how you feel.
Its disrespectful for him to flirt with other girls when he is clearly taken.
I can see from your ages your only between 13-15, im guessing he is too.
Hes probably to immature to be in a relationship and you need to cut the rope. Tell him he has a choice, by either staying with you and no flirting with other girls, or not having you and have every other girl.
You shouldnt be treated like this...not at your age. Sometimes these things hes doing will affect you later on in life and you may have confidence trouble or low self esteem. so you need to let him know. if he disagrees with what you say, or he says he will stop and doesnt...then dump him.
goodluck darling
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (12 June 2008):
you need to tell him that if he keeps flirting with other girl while hes in this relationship then its just not going to work. if he continues to flirt as bad as he has been then you should look for someone else. you dont want someone who will hurt you by there behavior. besides its just common curtasy to not flirt with other girls when your in a relationship.
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