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My girlfriend runs after the boys I like, I try to let her do what she wants because I want her to be happy, but this one boy I really like a lot and she has her eye on him, she also lies about me to boys, what can I do?

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Question - (13 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *aining Tears writes:

ok i told my friend that i liked this guy allot and she didnt even no him and we hung out 2 days ago and she started flirting with him...........she gave him her number and was askin him out and stuff...............and scince in knew that she liked him i lied and said that i already had a bf cuz im nice like that cuz i want her to be happy but i dont no wut to do........because ive nown him longer than she has and shes bein all lovey dovey to him.........and shes dont this to me 6 times now.......but im always to nice to say something.....and i called he up and asked her y she was tellin him that i had like 5 bfs and she told me to shut the f*ck up and hung up on me..........i need help cuz i dont no wut to do about it......cuz i like him allot.........

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A female reader, Skeez United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2008):

Skeez agony auntWow what a horrible friend.

Shes using you lovely. Shes obviously a very very insecure girl who thinks she can get evrything in her path.

To be honest, I dont even think she likes these guys but is trying to upset you by flirting with them anyways. I doubt its anything you have done but she just sounds like a horrible horrible little girl.

Tell her next time you see her that you have your own life and do not wish for her to get in the way. If she was a true friend she would respect that, but seeing as she told you to f*ck off, then she isnt a true friend.

Get rid of her and find a better friend. Im sure you have plenty of friends all ready so just start hanging out with them.

Also next time you like a guy, just dont tell her you like them. Get on with getting to know them on your own. Maybe when you like a guy you should tell them wht usually happens when you two are together. Tell him she flirts with guys you like and you wish to have a try out first with someone and get to know them without her bugging you or ruining your chances.

You cant let her carry on love.

Goodluck

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