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Would you like to be second best?

Tagged as: Dating, Teenage, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (27 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If you found out that your bf/gf was going to dump you for their ex, but then decided to stay with you, would you be ok with it or wud you end it with them ? how would you react ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

You deserve better.

You are not going to be 2nd best, post him back to his ex girlfriend with a complimentary ticket , saying "not good enough/ 2nd hand goods unacceptable".

It reminds of a Chinese proverb: "one more good man on eart is better than an extra angel in heaven".

Well there are still some good guys on earth, go and get one that will care for you and treat you with respect.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

You deserve better.

You are not going to be 2nd best, post him back to his ex girlfriend with a complimentary ticket , saying "not good enough/ 2nd hand goods unacceptable".

It reminds of a Chinese proverb: "one more good man on eart is better than an extra angel in heaven".

Well there are still some good guys on eart, go and get one that will care for you and treat you with respect.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2008):

shania agony auntDump him, he is using you...he is half hearted about this relationship.

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A female reader, Skeez United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2008):

Skeez agony auntI would end it. You woudlnt feel the same about that person anymore. How could you stay with someone who was just about to easily throw you away like that?

They obviously dont love you or care about you as much as you think if there prepared to give you up for an ex.

If my boyfriend told me that he ws thinking about dumping me for another girl but changed his mind, i wouldnt stick with him at all. Id say bye bye.

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