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*irk86
writes:I messed with another girl in front of my wife, i thought she was cool with it and now she doesn't trust me.What can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, kirk86 +, writes (13 July 2008):
kirk86 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thanks for the answer as i was told i didnt provide enough detail so here is the hole story the wife told me that she would have a three way with this girl and it seemed like it was something she wanted to do and one day we were all drinking alot except for my wife she really didnt have alot and i started makeingout with the other chick and feeling on her and my wife joined in and started kissing her and then when we were all in the bedroom later getting ready to go to bed me and the other girl started going at it agin with my wife right there but this time she didnt join and me and the other girl didnt have sex and this girl is my wifes best friend so my other question is should she not trust her as much as she isnt trusting me right now?
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 What woman would be cool about there husband playing and messing around with another girl?
You need to have a very good talk with her about what has happened. You didnt explain the reason why you played around with this girl, but if its becuase your feeling as though your in a rut in your marriage, then the only way to sought it out is talking to yor wife, rather than making her feel jealous and unwanted.
I personally dont blame her to not trust you anymore. She obviously cared for you but you disrespected that.
Tell her your sorry, tell her you wont do it again and acually mean it. She doesnt deserve a cheater.
Sorry If im coming off as harsh but what you did is rather bad.
Communication is your key.
Goodluck.
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